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Innocence, Four-year-old Style

“Children are the hands by which we take hold of heaven.”
Henry Ward Beecher

I ask my granddaughter to take my hand as we cross the busier section of Sharon Woods parking lot, so I don’t get hit by a car. She’s my helper until the space opens into a park-anywhere zone. We have been watching her older brother play baseball. Her attention span doesn’t last two hours yet.

“Run, Grandma!”

No thanks. I’m old,” I answer knowing that keeping up with her is as likely as flying without wings.

“You’re four today,” she states running toward the playground. “I see a friend.”

She hugs someone. An older girl, tall and thin, ebony dark. Then she joins the other children on the playground equipment.

As the children play, I talk to the thin girl’s mother. It appears unlikely that my sweet grandchild saw any more than a fresh spirit when we entered the playground.

“Let’s go back and watch your brother play ball,” the mother calls to her daughter and siblings.

The girls hug again.

Today is my birthday. I didn’t need to unwrap this gift. It came open on a sunny May Saturday. I am blessed. I am blessed. I am blessed.

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Empathy works so well because it does not require a solution. It requires only understanding. John Medina

Overheard

I heard it with my own ears.

A spoken word followed by

a child’s single tear

What did I comprehend?

I heard it once more.

A call to an old man to come now.

The voice sounded harsh.

I didn’t see the individual’s face.

What did I understand?

I can surmise.

Gather clues. Judge.

Or care. Interfere or

remain neutral.

Sometimes I need to trust

my gut. Any bluebird

will fly when approached.

Other times it is wiser

to negate first judgment.

If only my eyes and ears

gathered all with perfection.

Vision and sound lay open

as clear as blue skies.

When to act. When to stay outside,

a gift to comprehend.

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(photo of television after the show ended.)

They say that ‘Guns don’t kill people, people kill people.’ Well, I think the gun helps. If you just stood there and yelled BANG, I don’t think you’d kill too many people.”

Eddie Izzard

 

 

Groan…another Western

I pull my hearing aids out of my ears. It doesn’t help. Someone on the TV in the living room must be ready to pull out a gun. The conversational tone screams it. I fill in the script. “You stepped on my toe. And I’m gonna kill you for it.”

Okay. I admit it. I’m a peace monger at heart. Worse. One who drinks iced tea and hasn’t had a beer in thirty years.

Yes. I am certain there is a plot somewhere in the black-and-white episode one room away from me. Perhaps it is worth the gunpowder to follow it. The dead actors could get up after the script and appear in another episode. Or at least they could during the 1950s when the film was created.

Another gun blast. “Do you hear me, Marshall?”

Ignore it, Terry. Pay attention to your world. Breathe… Now breathe again. Get it out of your system and move on. Murder never solved any genuine problem. Life doesn’t come with a script.

Peace.

 

 

 

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