Dare to be naïve. (Richard Buckminster Fuller )
Our youngest granddaughter, four-year-old Ella, sounds out words but doesn’t talk in many sentences yet. Down syndrome has affected her speech. She understands, but is limited in her ability to speak fluently.
I am giving Ella a bubble bath as she plays with water toys. The boat soon becomes a cooking pot where she makes soup.
“What kind is it?” I ask.
“Green.”
As she pours that pot out into the tub, she dips more suds into her boat-pot. “White soup.”
I suspect that she wants to add some dessert to the menu when she says, “pie.”
“What kind?”
She grins—with an energy that reaches across her face, pauses, and then mouths what sounds like flatulence.
That is not the answer I expect. Apparently her interaction with other children at school and daycare has extended her life appreciation in multiple directions. “Fart-sound pie,” I tell the towel rack.
“Fart,” she says, once, the R well-rounded and clear. She giggles. So do I. Fortunately the word does not become a mantra the way it does with most children when they discover minor vulgarity.
She merely laughs, her blue eyes flashing simple delight. After she is dried and dressed she runs holding the boat out in front of her, leading it from one room to the other. She has places to go and is eager to travel—wherever her path leads.
When her older cousins, Kate and Rebe, arrive several days later the first thing they want to know is when they can see Ella next. Since I don’t have a date yet I share the bathtub story. Ella’s sense of humor can be present anyway.
Kate and Rebe repeat the tale as if they are putting it into a mini-drama and need to memorize every detail. It will grow stale, in time, replaced by another incident. But I hope the three girls are always eager to see one another, to celebrate the freshness of who-they-are. May their naivety remain intact for many years. And may they continue sharing it with Grandma.
After all, Ella’s first full sentence was, “I love you.”
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